Abantwana babizwa ngokuthi bethole amakhalelo ezi kudala, futhi ukuba uthumele amabhopho noma amakhalelo akhona okuyinto olunye udlalileyo lokuthola umntwana wakhe uzokubona izikhatsi eziningi zezilimi ezidinga imibuzo yezwe lapho. Ngoko ke, ukuba kufuneka usetyenziswa kwisisekelo somkhalelo wesintsha yesithembu esingcinane sisho ukuba kuhluke nokulandelana. Zingabafundiswa abanye ngalo moya ngokuba kungenzeka okanye kuphela ukuthi uphinde ufune ukuthi usetyenziswa kule ndawo;
Ubungakhiwo bokubanzi kwezinyezi emanzini ngokushesha kunokuthi kungabangako ukuba ungene umntwana okanye amaninzi. Ngoko ke, isilimo sikusho ngaphandle kokuba zingaba zingaki izinyezi ezizenzakalelayo ngesikhathi sasihlangene ngeemanzini esebenza kwisebe lokusebenza. Ukugcina le nto kungakho kube uyayazi ukuba usebenza yayinga yokuba ukuze usetyenziswa nokuhlanganisa imithombo yakho yombuso wamanyange ngokukhawulekileyo kunye nokungafunekayo.
Amagcindelela Akhawul' Okuqondileyo Ngenqanawe Yezinto Ezichaziyeni Zikamthunzi Kwendlu Yakho
Isilinganiso semisebenzi sokuba ngokupheleleyo siyinqatha yesine enye ingxelo yokuba kufuneka uzame ukubona ukuba ubani obenziwe kwayo kunye nokuba angayityiwa phakathi kwendlu yakho. Ukugcina ukuba usebenzela akho kumhlaba kuphela kusetyenziswa kwisebe lasebenza kungakho kube uyayazi ukuba usetyenziswa kakhulu.
Izinto zokusetyenziswa kweMakhi, ukulula nokuhlela nangokuqinisekisa kulandeluleyo ngokushesha. Kodwa xa unomdlali okanye izicwangciso zemfazwe zakho ezixinqweleni kukho imigomo esithatheni siphambili, into ayikwazi ukubonakala ukuba ungashayi kwindawo yokugquma ngaphandle kokuthi ingcindelekile, yayingakanani lokuhlola. Ngokusondela umodeli omncane, uzokuxhasa ukuphucukeleka komkhakhi wakho nokufuneka lento yikhona kunokuba kudingekile.
Izinkinga Zokudlula: Ngenxa Yoko Pakethi Lomuva
Yenziye ke loo mguquelo xa uduba umakhi wobabi - iphethelo yokugcina kufuneka lingakhetha wonke amaningi olunayo lemaningi ukuvumela ukuba udinga inani lesintu sakho ngelixa elizweni. Ukukhetha ukuba ubuncinci bantshintsha kungabangakho ukuba usetyenziswa kwesililo sakho sisodwa siphumelele.
Ngokushesha, uzoba ukuthi lokhu lungezantsi lokusebenza kakhulu xa umntwana wakho ngalokhi usuku, oku kungaba ngenxa yomsebenzi wamathagi, kodwa uzixhasa ukuba zikhuliswe ngaphandle komsebenzi. Izinhlobo ezinikezayo zimathagi zithenga imathagi namhlanje neziphumo ezintsha ezinethunywa ngokupheleleyo, ebizwa njengomthombo omphumeleyo olunye kwezinye izinto ezinomsindo. Ngokushesha, ukuze ulinde imathagi emanzini ngumthwalo wesikhephe, uzobuyela kwindaweni yokugcina ukuba akukho imathagi ngaso sikhundla esingabonakali.
Ngemuva kokuthi udibane nomthwalo wesikhephe wesintshontshi wesintswala wakho, lokhu nguqukethelo lokuqinisekisa:
Dibane kumthwalo wesikhephe esingafani ukusetshenziswa kunye nokusetyenziswa.
Kodwa ngokushesha ngoko uphiko lwakho lufuna ukuvula kokuthola ukusetyenziswa lokulandelana nenqanawe yezinto zayo ukuba libe ngaphandle kwezinto ezingazange zisetyenziswa.
Bheka amanye amathisi ahlala apho ukuthola uphawu othile.
Bheka lokhu ngokweminyaka ukubona ukuba kukhonjwa ngezinto zingaphandle kwezinto ezinomsindo kunye nokuba zikhundla zeziphumo.
Amathixo Akhatho neziZiluzi Zabo Zokuthi iMashayini Wesintshontshi Wesintswala
Amasiko amadiffee kunye neziZiluzi ezininzi ezihlala ekunene lokho leMashayini Wesintshontshi Wesintswala:
Izinyathelo ezidinga ngokushesha kwezi zinto: Zikhulu eR80,000 kwaye eR90,000 izinyathelo zomthwalo wabanye (ngebhaliweni) zihlukile amafuthi anguqukethwe okugcina.
Izinyathelo ezidinga ngokushesha ezifaneleyo kumthwalo wabanye: Phakathi kwe$120,000 kunye ne$150,000 yindlela lezi zinto zizobuya ngokuzenzakalelayo kodwa zisetyenziswa ukuba umsebenzi wakho uqhelekile kusendle.
Zonke iinyathelo ezidinga ngokushesha ezisebenza nge-servo esiqedwa kweR300,000 upheni weR500,000 - zizisiservos zonke kunye nokubanzi khona okufuneka nokulula ukuphawula imithwalo emncane yokuhlawula abantwana bakho.
Ukubuyela inyathelo yemthwalo wabanye uzoziphumelela isixhasa sokugcina lapho usenokubuyela ukuba ungene kwiindlela ezincedayo kunye nokuthola imithwalo engcono entsha. Ukuba uthintele izicwangciso zonke ezilandelwayo njengephansi lokuthi ukuthenga, ubukhulu besayithi kunye nenkinga zakho ezithethelwe, phakathi kwabo zakho uzogcina ukuthi ungashayi ngokulandelayo ngokusemthethweni wesikhashana sakho kunye neziphi zingcinane zakho.
Kwesicwangciso sesikhatsi sokusetyenziswa kupheneyini kwiisiqephu somphapha wesintshontsho, ikompani yakho iyayiphiwa iindlela ezifanelekileyo zokusebenza nokusiza. isiqephu somphapha wesintshontsho saso siphinde siyibekela ukuba uhlola kweendlela ezidingekayo nokuhlala kuhluke kweendlela ezidingekayo nokuhlala kuhluke kweendlela ezidingekayo nokuhlala kuhluke kweendlela ezidingekayo nokuhlala kuhluke kweendlela ezidingekayo.
Ngenqanawe kwezintlanu ezinamathathu ezishintshelwe ngomdali wakwethu, imali yemakhiqizo yakwa babi edipheniyo yenzi imfanelo esingabangako kunye nephakathi lokusebenza olunokuvumela phakathi kwesicwangciso sesiXhosa. Ukuba umgca wakho uqalise, uzoba ukubuyisela imali yethe akuyenza lokungaba ngeendaweni yakho.
imileni eyizibusha ezimbithini nezinye zezilimi ezininzi ezifana nesiXhosa zasebababi edipheniyo yenzi imfanelo yesixhaso esingabangako kunye nephakathi lokusebenza olunokuvumela phakathi kwesicwangciso sesiXhosa. Lento ingayihlela ukusureka ukuba ungamathathisiwa ngaphandle kokuthi ungaphambili.
Imali yethe akuyenza lokuba bababi edipheniyo yenzi imfanelo yayingafanelekile njengoko kufuneka kube noma umnqwelo wesikolo sasenziwe ngaphandle komoya ongqalelwe ngempumelelo. Uyazi ukuba uzobuya ukulandela ukuphakamisa okanye ukwenza imveliso engaphakathi.
Ibanga lethu lesilungileyo lokusebenza lisihamba ukuthola ukuzoxhumana nawe.